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    Life, As Is

    When Blurry Vision Wasn’t About My Eyes

    ByDee 02/05/202602/05/2026

    I’m already nearsighted. Deeply nearsighted. The kind where taking off my glasses turns the world into abstract impressionism. So when my vision started going blurry two years ago, I assumed my prescription needed updating. Went to the optometrist. New lenses. Same problem. Except it wasn’t consistent. Some mornings I’d wake up and everything was sharp….

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    The Money Part

    Building FIRE: Work Freedom Over Retirement

    ByDee 10/04/202610/04/2026

    I’m not building wealth to stop working. I’m building it so I never have to work for anyone who doesn’t deserve my time. Here’s why “work freedom FIRE” is more sustainable – and happier – than traditional retirement.

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    Remote Work

    Nobody Told Me When to Start. That Was the Problem.

    ByDee 03/04/202603/04/2026

    No office means no one tells you when to start, when to stop, or when you’re allowed to be done. Remote work sounds like freedom until you realise you’ve spent the morning in bed avoiding the exact problem that’s still waiting for you at noon.

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    The Money Part

    The Freelance Rate Nobody Talks About: Start With Your Time

    ByDee 02/04/202602/04/2026

    Market rate is my floor, not my ceiling. Here’s how I think about setting a freelance rate – starting with time, adjusting for complexity, and making sure no single client ever holds more than thirty percent of my income.

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    Remote Work

    So You Want to Be a Virtual Assistant: 7 Things I Wish I’d Known

    ByDee 25/03/202625/03/2026

    I spent two weeks getting rejected before my first paid gig. Here’s everything I learned about becoming a virtual assistant the hard way.

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    Life, As Is

    What Five Years of Freedom Did to My Body

    ByDee 21/03/202621/03/2026

    I thought freedom meant flexibility. Turns out it also meant my body quietly falling apart while I wasn’t paying attention.

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    Life, As Is

    My Grandmother Asked If I’d Married My Phone

    ByDee 19/03/202619/03/2026

    I didn’t realise I had no boundaries until my body started keeping score. Here’s how I stopped letting work take everything.

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    Slow Travel

    Why I Can’t Sleep in Airports Anymore (And Other Things 40-Year-Old Me Won’t Do)

    ByDee 18/03/202619/03/2026

    From sleeping through earthquakes in Christchurch Airport to requiring confirmed WiFi before booking – how travel changed between 25 and 40.

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    The Money Part

    The Tax Nobody Tells You About: International Payment Fees

    ByDee 15/03/202615/03/2026

    PayPal, bank transfers, Payoneer, Stripe – I’ve tried them all. Here’s what nobody tells you about getting paid across borders.

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    Remote Work

    I Googled My Way Out of a Career. Here’s What I Found.

    ByDee 13/03/202615/03/2026

    The night I decided I was done being tied to a desk – and the word that changed everything.

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