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    Slow Travel

    Two Weeks Alone at the Bottom of the World

    ByDee 16/05/202616/05/2026

    Two weeks wandering Bluff and Invercargill alone. Museums, oysters, truck parades, and rain. What happens when you slow down enough to hear the wind.

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  • The Hotel Job That Fed Me Rainbow Trout and Left-Behind Yoghurt
    Slow Travel

    The Hotel Job That Fed Me Rainbow Trout and Left-Behind Yoghurt

    ByDee 04/05/202604/05/2026

    Six-hour shifts cleaning hotel rooms in Te Anau. Shared meals with European backpackers. A vanlifer who caught trout with his bare hands. Working travel, unfiltered.

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    Life, As Is

    When Blurry Vision Wasn’t About My Eyes

    ByDee 02/05/202602/05/2026

    I’m already nearsighted. Deeply nearsighted. The kind where taking off my glasses turns the world into abstract impressionism. So when my vision started going blurry two years ago, I assumed my prescription needed updating. Went to the optometrist. New lenses. Same problem. Except it wasn’t consistent. Some mornings I’d wake up and everything was sharp….

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    Slow Travel

    Two Weeks Cleaning Bunks in Greymouth (And Why I Loved It)

    ByDee 01/05/202601/05/2026

    Two weeks of hostel work in Greymouth: 4-hour shifts, instant coffee breakfasts, and hitchhiking to Pancake Rocks. This is what backpacker life actually looks like.

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    The Money Part

    Track Every Dollar. No, Really. Every Single One.

    ByDee 18/04/202618/04/2026

    I started tracking my business finances from day one. Used a spreadsheet. Logged expenses. Felt organised. Problem wasn’t the tool. Problem was I wasn’t tracking everything. Missing the $4.99 monthly app subscription here. Forgetting to log the $100 course there. “I’ll add it later” turning into “I’ll estimate at tax time.” A spreadsheet doesn’t help…

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    Slow Travel

    Strangers, Sand Dunes, and the Kindness I Miss

    ByDee 16/04/202616/04/2026

    A two-week bus journey to New Zealand’s northernmost point. Six homeschooled kids asking endless questions. A family who opened their home to strangers for no reason except wanting their children to meet the world. This is what travel looked like before the internet made everyone suspicious.

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    The Money Part

    Building FIRE: Work Freedom Over Retirement

    ByDee 10/04/202610/04/2026

    I’m not building wealth to stop working. I’m building it so I never have to work for anyone who doesn’t deserve my time. Here’s why “work freedom FIRE” is more sustainable – and happier – than traditional retirement.

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  • The Best Travel Memories Cost Nothing
    Slow Travel

    The Best Travel Memories Cost Nothing

    ByDee 08/04/202610/04/2026

    We packed four people into a car with no plan and $200 budget. That two-day road trip taught me that the best travel memories cost nothing – they’re the conversations, the small-town wandering, the time spent with people who matter.

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    Remote Work

    Your Job Title Didn’t Change. Your Job Description Did.

    ByDee 08/04/202608/04/2026

    My job title hasn’t changed in ten years. I’m still a “Virtual Assistant”. But if you asked me to describe what I actually do now versus a year ago, I’d be describing two completely different careers. A year ago, I spent eight hours processing invoices. Last month, I did the same work – five years’…

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  • Nobody Told Me When to Start. That Was the Problem.
    Remote Work

    Nobody Told Me When to Start. That Was the Problem.

    ByDee 03/04/202603/04/2026

    No office means no one tells you when to start, when to stop, or when you’re allowed to be done. Remote work sounds like freedom until you realise you’ve spent the morning in bed avoiding the exact problem that’s still waiting for you at noon.

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